To my friend of more than 50years till we meet again on some sunny day I will always remember and never forget what friendship we had

Our dear friend will be greatly missed by us.

Dearest Tony, there are many things for which you will be remembered, for example, conversing, your love of partying, singing and sense of humour, are the main four aspects that identify you by us. Regarding the singing, you had such a melodious singing and speaking voice, and the song that is most vivid and will always remind us of you, is Mustang Sally. It was a great pleasure knowing you and most admirable seeing you face your struggle in the last year in particular. You continued to maintain those qualities throughout – your mind did not allow your body to buckle. You fought the clichèd fight until the bitter end. If we could have have half that courage and determination to persevere, then your example has set the bar. Rest in Peace dear friend, and let the angels come back to embrace you on your bodily journey; they’ve already delivered your soul. As all South Africans would say, “Safe in the Arms of Jesus!”

Eternal Rest grant unto him, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine upon him. Amen. 🙏😇🕯️💐

I bit farewell to a man I have known over 24 years. Tony started out as my boss and I loved his strict, strong, straight work ethics. I broke through his brick walls and loved getting the job done with no fuss. Before long I became friends with Tony and Elaine and socialising with them outside work. I made the trip to the hospital the first time he went in 23 years ago, joking around with him. I remember he got a good result from that Operation although it wasn’t to be. I eventually work as Tony’s equal as a Team Leader where he continually helped me as required. I watched his treatment symptoms during that time with Tony not making a fuss and just getting on with his job, my heart went out to him. Eventually Tony declined against his will and not for sake of him trying everything he could to stay longer with Elaine and the kids, he absolutely loved his family. During my last lots of visits with him he was always factual about his health and we spoke openly about it but he was always interested and asked about in my life. I know how satisfied he was in setting up Elaine so she can move on with life without her best mate. I could not shed tears in his presence or could bring myself to say goodbye but he knew how a felt about him. I’m so happy for him now as I know he is where he wants to be. I shed tears from my heart now for Tony’s absence and for the sadness for Elaine. Until we meet again my good friend, Tony.

Gail and I wish to express our heartfelt condolences to Elaine and the Herold family for the loss of their husband, father and grandfather. Tony was a wonderful friend who always carried his heart on his sleeve. He was always willing to offer advice to solve any problem whether it was how to fix your broken door or how to solve a world problem. We shared meaningful conversations and enjoyed wonderful music together. Tony will be missed. Gone but not forgotten. RIP mate.

To aunty Elaine, the kids and grandkids. Our deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband, dad and granddad.

Uncle Tony was such a special soul.
Growing up you were always just there and I cherished going on a Sunday with my parents to visit your family.
We were always welcomed, coz he loved having people visit.
You were as real as a person could be and there was no hana hana with you, you said it like it is.
You were a firm defender of the truth and had such a genuine concern for others.
I loved your and aunty Elaine’s relationship and learnt a lot from you two.
You were one special guy and I for sure am going to miss you.
Rest in peace my dear uncle.

Who knew the beginning of the end would be so hard for me to fathom, I am unsure what to do, but I want to write to you with things unsaid and things that may never be said.
Losing someone to death is very hard, grieving the loss of it is normal however yours is so unique and because of the sincerity of our friendship.
But losing a close friend, losing you! I felt an ache in my chest that I couldn’t explain – can’t explain. Maybe it felt like losing a part of me that I didn’t know was filled by you, so effortlessly for nearly sixty years.
I don’t think we talked enough about it, but to lose close friends.
We were such a close group of friends from the sixties, they all gone too soon and you.
Wallace, Willard, Glyn, Melvin, Chowie, Bones, Chicken and Kaffertjie and now you.
This leaves me last man standing from our unique group of friends.
Elaine when he laid his eyes on you, we were all warned, stay away, no advances. That girl is mine.
I don’t think you will know how we use to drive in circles around your house for ages, hoping that he will just get a glimpse of you. Friday and Saturday nights were the worst, we were never sure if we were intoxicated from driving around in circles or finishing two bottles of Vodka with six guys crammed into a Morris Minor. After this process, we knew we had to put a stop to it, so when shots were poured, Tony (the driver) was given triple shots to get him to stop this merry go round and go to Glyn’s house to listen to music.
However long we have been apart, I won’t forget how you stood up for yourself unapologetically, how you fought through your life to be where you are, and how you put on your bravest face when faced with adversities. I hope I pick up a little of your courage and strength to get me through things on my own.
This is me reminiscing, this is me grieving, this is me shouting into a void telling you that I’ll miss you and your friendship/brotherly love that meant such a lot to me. You always held a special place in my life and heart, helped me to learn, heal and grow in my youth.
Our memories will always be etched in my heart.
Adieu my best friend
Gavin Jooste

I’m very sorry, My deepest condolences to the Family at this sad time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Elaine and the family. (Conjola family). Tony

The solar eclipse. U the moon and the sun the world u leaving behind. We will miss the you Tony. Memories will keep us going. Rest in peace dear friend. Till we meet again.